Home is where the Heart is

Home sweet Home

Living in San Josa is easy , super friendly people, cheap and laid back.

We have decided to make Costa Rica home, Situated between our families in Brazil and the USA, Lesbian friendly and our work is legal.

I have done something that just 1 year ago  as a 20 odd year old Art college drop out from LA, I would have said was impossible . I just bought a 11000 sq foot house - with cash.

Our house

Our bathroom

M in her favourite room- the kitchen

We have met some nice people through the local Lesbian scene and they have been showing us around the place and introducing us to the cool places and people.

Arenal volcano is a must visit for anyone in Costa Rica, watching the molten lava pouring down at night, while sitting in your volcanically heated spa, sipping on a ice cold beer is just great.

The resort we are staying at is Lesbian (very friendly) with most masseurs more than willing to give any girl a "happy ending"

Mud bath, volcanic raps, massage, facials.....fabulous, not to be missed. 

 with the Korean Masseur

The west coast is much more developed for tourists than the East, so depending on what you desire you can find big resorts to sleepy little villages.

We headed to the less developed Caribbean side, to a place called  to stay at a Yoga retreat.
The yoga, the people and the food was great, the Howler monkeys at 5 am are not, LOL

An all girls week, with girls from all over the place, so it was interesting. Most were married, most led very normal middle class lives, so listening to them grumble about their work, their dull marriages was in a strange way interesting. It was like listening to life on another planet.
It reminded me of Julie, I wondered how she was doing.

A really nice resort, very good yogis and very amiable people.



M and me :

M

M

Nymphette

Life is good

Enjoying the spa

Enjoying the beach

And loving the streams

And loving each other

Relaxing after a hard day of yoga

 Well it was great, but its time to head back home to San Josa.

 妓女

2012

Costa Rica - Stop 19

Costa Rica - Stop 19

Star rating - 5 

Costa Rica is sometimes referred to as the Switzerland of Central America because of its comfortable lifestyle, peaceful democracy and overwhelming natural beauty. The country’s Disney like cast of creatures – ranging from howler monkeys to toucans – are populous and relatively easy to spot. The waves are prime, the beauty is staggering and the sluggish pace seductive. A peaceful oasis in a tumultuous region, this tiny nation draws 1.5 million visitors every year.

To put things in perspective, consider the fact that prior to 1950, half of the country struggled with grinding poverty, and living beyond the age of 50 was an achievement in itself. Today, less than one in five Ticos (Costa Ricans) lives below the poverty line, and life expectancy is on a par with the USA. 

Given the rise in quality of life throughout the country, Ticos are generally self-content and passive about politics. But underneath the easygoing veneer is discernible pride and support for their unarmed democracy.

What’s on tap? The question is what isn’t? Active travellers can surf, hike, snorkel and Spot wildlife for starters. The incredibly varied topography means you can cruise the cloud forest one day, visit an active volcano the next, and finish relaxing on a hot sandy beach. Adrenaline junkies have a myriad ways to make mothers worry – among them zipping through canopy lines hundreds of meters long and riding the rough surf of the Pacific. Choice and variety name the game.

Of course, the frenzy to snatch up a piece of Shangri-la has its consequences. Since the boom, tourism is more chic and less cheap. Classic destinations are now crowded destinations and local culture is often lost or cast aside. Lucky for Costa Rica that its do-gooder fans, ranging from ecologists to proud Ticos (Costa Ricans), are vocal and vigilant. Nature here (like everywhere) suffers its blows, but at least it is taken seriously.

As far as LGBT is concerned, Costa Rica is widely known as the most tolerant of Latin American countries for gay and lesbian travelers. There is a thriving gay scene in San Jose with many gay and lesbian options for nightlife (La Avispa, Club Oh!, Bochinche among others). The Manuel Antonio, Jaco, and Quepos area is also a favorite spot with several gay hotels and a gay bar.

There are a good number of Gay/lesbian or Gay-Friendly accommodations in Costa Rica. Accommodations seem to be of the higher quality offering a variety of services and of course, discretion. Many hotels, travel agencies, and resorts are run by gays and/or are gay-friendly.

Also with prostitution being legal it's a win - win for us.

妓女

2012

Tango is love

The Dance of love

Although I must admit it feels odd, lonely without Cici and Happy with us, it is good just to have time for the two of us.

Ever since New Zealand, all those months ago, we have rarely been alone.

I think M and I have a bond that few lesbian, yet alone straight couples have which has been forged through our shared experiences, both good and bad.

M has been my pillar of support throughout everything, especially that nightmare of India.

To be in a country in which being a same sex couple is legally recognised is certainly nice. Of course we still get stared at, well first we are oriental, second lesbian, third pretty.

I kissed M openly on the street today, a lovers kiss, long and full of passion, I could feel her heart beating fast, but the street seemed silent.

A man approached us after and said, " thats so cool, you go girls, gay is the way".

I felt like a little girl again that had raided the cookie jar and got away with it.

Now you might not like that we are Chinese, you might not be accepting of us being Lesbian. You may despise our profession and you may even be jealous of us.

We are financially independent now, mobile and deeply in love, that's not too shabby for 2 girls in their early 20's I think.

But more important maybe, we are together.

The gay scene in Buenos Aires, in common with other cities in South America, starts very late. Apart from one bar (Flux) and the cruising bars and movie theaters, nothing really starts until around midnight. Very few people arrive at discos until 2 a.m. but then the discos will fill rapidly such that queues form outside, particularly on Saturdays.
The principal discos and bars mostly operate from Thursday to Sunday but there are show bars with comedy drag and strippers open seven nights a week. Most of the cruising bars, cinemas and saunas are open seven days a week, with some being open 24 hours throughout the weekend.

The gay scene in Buenos Aires appears to be free of dress-code, uniforms, and clones; dress for all occasions and places is informal lightweight summer wear (although in the southern winter you will need a sweater or jacket in the cool evenings). 

So I guess you figured it out we like it here a lot.

The local girls and the couples (if you want that) are cool , of course theres a few predator girls/ couples but there easy to spot and their reputation precedes them.

Licking some local pussy

Hot Local Lesbians

Swinging couple

Argentina is one of those nice progressive countries where prostitution is legal so working was easy and relaxed.

Hooking on the streets

Blowing to completion

Jane licking

Smoking with a Jane

Best blow job ever he said
"practice makes perfect"

Argentina is very Lesbian friendly and should be on everyones vacation agenda. There's an awful lot to see in Argentina (it's) a big country.


We are going to make a quick stop over in Brazil, to visit family before heading to our next destination.

妓女

2012

Argentina - Stop 18

Argentina - stop 18

Star rating - 4.5

Comprising almost the entire southern half of South America, Argentina is the world's eighth largest country, covering an area of 2.8 million square km. Argentina possesses some of the world's tallest mountains, expansive deserts, and impressive waterfalls, with the diversity of the land ranging from wild, remote areas in southern Patagonia to the bustling metropolis of Buenos Aires in the north.

Along with numerous nomadic tribespeople, two main indigenous groups existed in Argentina before the European arrival. In the northwest, near Bolivia and the Andes, was a people known as the Diaguita, while further south and to the east were the Guarani. Together the Diaguita and the Guarani constitute the origins of permanent agricultural civilization in Argentina, both developing the cultivation of maize. The Diaguita are also remembered for having successfully prevented the powerful Inca from expanding their empire into Argentina from what is now Bolivia.

It was perhaps a legacy of this successful resistance that enabled the native peoples of Argentina to carry on a prolonged campaign against colonization and rule by the Spanish. The first Spaniard to land in Argentina, Juan de Solis, was killed in 1516, and several attempts to found Buenos Aires were stymied by the local inhabitants. Inland cities were more successful, and it wasn't until the late 16th century that Buenos Aires was securely established.

Despite its military success, indigenous resistance was inevitably weakened by the introduction of diseases from Europe. Even after the native threat became minimal, however, Argentina was still mostly neglected by Spain, which was more interested in developing Lima and the riches of Peru. Buenos Aires was forbidden to trade with foreign countries, and the city became a smuggler's haunt. 


Argentina's culture has been greatly affected by its immigrant population, mostly European. Their influence contributed to the demise of pre-Columbian cultures, resulting in the lack of a dominant indigenous population. The European immigrant groups each adopted different roles. The Basque and Irish controlled sheep rearing, the Germans and Italians established farms, and the British invested in developing the country's infra- structure.

More than one-third of the country's 32 million people live in Buenos Aires, the capital, which along with other urban areas accounts for almost 90% of the total population. The principal indigenous peoples are the Quechua of the northwest and the Mapuche in Patagonia. Other marginal groups include the Matacos and Tobas in the Chaco and other northeastern cities. There are strong Jewish and Anglo-Argentine communities throughout the country; small communities of Japanese, Chileans and Bolivians; and enclaves of Paraguayan and Uruguayan residents.

The universal language of Argentina is Spanish, but many natives and immigrants keep their mother tongues as a matter of pride.

Buenos Aires is one of the most gay-friendly cities of South America and gays are generally well accepted. There is a law in Capital Federal that permits a same-sex couple to enter into a civil partnership. Open displays of affection in public between a same sex couple are not often seen. However, it is quite normal and expected for all males (gay or not) to kiss each other on the cheek on meeting and parting.

There is no gay center, the gay scene can be found scattered around the centre and the districts of Recoleta, Palermo and San Telmo. (People sometimes refer to Barrio Norte which isn't actually a district but includes parts of Recoleta and Palermo.) However many gay places are within a relatively short walk or taxi ride of each other. These districts of Buenos Aires are some of the safest zones of any major city in South America and visitors should feel secure walking around day or night (however, sensible precautions should never be abandoned). 

There are several gay maps available and the best in my opinion is the one published under the auspices of the Government of the City of Buenos Aires.

妓女

2012

The Fellowship of the Whores

The fellowship of the whores

Cape Town South Africa's second largest city and Tourist hot spot, first sighted by Bartolomeu Dias in 1486 and was fought over and exchanged by the Dutch and British is the final stop for the four of us together. 

Cici and Happy will part ways with us after Cape Town, returning to China.

Sun bathing with factor 1000

Cheeky

Although we did run into a few fun couples that we had some fun with, we mainly spent this time just the four of us.

And wouldn't you know it, I knew something was up as my breasts/ areola  were getting swollen and tender, yes  I thought I was starting my first period since India.... Geez, timing !!

Accompanying Cici and Happy to the Airport, my heart was filled with great sadness. Parting with lovers and such good friends is never easy I'm sure and the four of us had been through so much together.
We have a bond, an unspoken understanding of each other, that was formed out of sharing painful times together and such happy times together as well.

By the time we were at the departure area we all were blubbering messes crying like babies.

In the taxi back to our Hotel M and I said nothing just squeezing each others hand tightly.

妓女

2012